Uko politiki ishobora guhindura imitekerereze ya muntu kugera no ku gutera akabariro

Yanditswe na Dufitumukiza Salathiel
Kuya 25 Ukuboza 2020 saa 04:43
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Politiki n’ubuzima busanzwe bwa muntu biragendana umunsi ku munsi, ndetse hari abadatinya kuvuga ko kugira ubuzima buryoshye hatariho politiki byagorana. Abashakashatsi bemeza ko ibitekerezo bya politiki bigira uruhare mu kugena uko umuntu yiyumva, ndetse no gutuma ikintu runaka gishimisha nyiracyo.

N’ubwo ijambo ‘politike’ ryumvikana kenshi nk’ibikorwa byo kuyoboka amashyaka no kwigarurira ubutegetsi bw’agace, ahantu, cyangwa itsinda runaka, imitekerereze kamere ya muntu iganisha ku buryo yumva ibintu byakorwa nayo ishobora guhuzwa na politiki.

Muri rubanda, umuntu uzanye igitekerezo kinyuranye n’icy’abandi bari bemeranyijeho, akenshi akazanamo n’ubusesenguzi bwo gushimangira ingingo ye, bamwikoma bamwita umunyapolitike. Bati ‘Kanaka ni umunyapolitike’, bashaka kumvikanisha ko yanze kugendera ku byo bamwe bemeye cyangwa yabangamiye ingingo runaka ntiyemerwe.

Ku rundi ruhande ariko, imitekerereze y’abayoboke b’ishyaka cyangwa itsinda runaka baba bafite imyemerere n’ibitekerezo byabahuje, ari na byo byabaye intandaro yo kwishyira hamwe.

Abandi bafite imyemerere n’ibitekerezo bitandukanye n’ibyabo, nabo bishyira hamwe bagakora ishyaka ryabo, ari bwo usanga mu gihugu runaka hari amashyaka atandukanye, akenshi aba ari aya politiki.

Abahanga mu by’imitekerereze ya muntu bemeza ko ibitekerezo runaka ishyaka rimwe cyangwa irindi rigenderaho, bishobora kugira uruhare mu kugena ibigwa neza abayoboke baryo, kuva ku miterere y’ibara, agace k’ahantu runaka ndetse yewe no kugera ku buryo umuntu aryoherwa n’imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Urugero rutangwa ni urw’amashyaka abiri yo muri Leta zunze Ubumwe za Amerika, Aba-démocrates n’Aba-républicains.

Mu gitabo “The pragmatist’s Guide to Sexuality, husband and wife”, Malcolm afatanyije na Simone Collins bagaragaje ko Aba-républicains ari bo bashobora kuba bakunda gushimishwa n’ibikorwa biganisha ku mibonano mpuzabitsina cyane ugereranyije n’Aba-démocrates.

Ibyo kandi bishimangirwa na Justin Lehmiller mu gitabo yise “Tell Me What You Want: The science of sexual desire and how it can help you improve your sex life.”

Uyu mugabo yahamije ko Aba-républicains bakunda gutekereza ku mibonano mpuzabitsina yo hanze y’urugo nko gucana inyuma, kujya mu birori biberamo ubusinzi n’ubusambanyi, gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ari batatu, ndetse no kugurana abagore mu gihe bari muri ibyo bikorwa.

Malcolm na Collins bavuga ko imyitwarire y’aba ba républicains ishobora kuba ifitanye isano n’uburyo iryo shyaka rishingiye ku muco gakondo cyane, ridashyigikira ibikorwa birimo ubutinganyi, imibonano mpuzabitsina ihuje abantu benshi n’ibindi bijya kumera gutyo.

Kuba rero Aba-républicains badashyigikira imyitwarire imeze gutyo, bituma abasanzwe ari abayoboke b’iryo shyaka bagira amatsiko, bakabikora kuko bisa nk’ibitemewe. Bagize bati “Nta cyatuma dushaka kugerageza ikintu kurusha kuba twarabwiwe ko tudashobora kugikora.”

Sunday Times ivuga ko icyitwa umuziro gituruka ku ihame ry’imitekerereze yo mu mutwe rizwi nka “reactance” rivuga ko iyo umudendezo wa muntu uhonyowe ndetse akabwirwa ko adashobora gukora ikintu runaka, bituma ashaka kugikora birushijeho.

Iyo ngo niyo mpamvu ibifatwa nk’imiziro bikunze kuryohera benshi, hatitawe ku kureba uko biri n’uko bifatwa nabi muri rubanda. Aha ni hamwe usanga abantu bishimira gukora ibifatwa nk’ibintu bibi, rimwe na rimwe ari n’amakosa, ariko ababikora ukabona birabashimishije.

Uherutse kugwa muri uyu mutego wo gukora amakosa kandi abizi, akanabiryozwa, ni uwahoze ari mu bayobozi ba rimwe mu mashyaka yo mu gihugu cya Hungrie, Jozsef Szajer, wagaragaye yagiye mu kabyiniro k’abatinganyi, kandi akagenda yitwaje ibiyobabwenge. Ishyaka ry’uyu mugabo nyamara rivuga ko rigendera ku mahame akaze ya gikirisitu ndetse rikanamaganira kure iby’abaryamana bahuje igitsina.

Urundi rugero rw’aho abantu bishimira gukora ibyo bita ko barwanya ni muri Afurika y’Epfo. Muri iki gihugu, hari umuco ukomeye wa gikirisitu ndetse n’iyo umukobwa yambaye atikwije ashobora kunenwa ndetse no kuvugirizwa induru mu bandi, ndetse rimwe na rimwe agahezwa.

Nyamara iyo urebye n’urubuga runyuzwaho amashusho y’urukozasoni, bigaragara ko Afurika y’Epfo ari kimwe mu bihugu bireba aya mashusho kurusha ibindi ku mugabane wa Afurika, ndetse inahagaze keza ku rwego rw’Isi.

Muri rusange rero, abashakashatsi bemeza ko ibyo umuntu ahisemo nk’ibimugenga mu mitekerereze binagenga uko yitwara mu buzima bwa buri munsi, bakajya inama y’uko abantu bagakwiye kwitwararika, bakamenya kwakira no gusesengura ibitekerezo bishya batari basanzwe bafite.

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