Mu miryango myinshi hateze ibisasu bishobora guturika vuba

Yanditswe na Pastor Desire Habyarimana
Kuya 20 Ukuboza 2020 saa 12:12
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Hashize iminsi mike nyuze ku mwana uri mu kigero cy’imyaka hagati y’itanu n’irindwi yicaye acuritse umutwe mu maguru asa n’uwatwaye n’ibitekerezo. Narahagaze ndamubaza nti ‘yewe mwa uri kwiyumvira ibiki?’, arambwira ati ‘Ndi gutekereza uburyo ninkura nzajya mu gisirikare bakazampa imbunda nkazica Papa.’

Nahagaritse gahunda nari ngiyemo ndamuganiriza mubaza ikimuteye gutekereza atyo, ariko igisubizo yampaye giteye agahinda.

Yabwiye ukuntu se ari umusinzi, ataha akubita nyina, ko yabuze amafaranga y’ishuri, ko mukuru wabo w’umukobwa yabyariye iwabo, ko batarya ngo bahage, kandi nta n’imyambaro bafite kuko yari yambaye imyenda yamucikiyeho, ya yindi umubyeyi atakwifuza kubona umwana we yaserukanye.

Uyu mwana wabonaga aremerewe umutima ku bwo kubura urukundo rwa kibyeyi. Birashoboka ko hari benshi bafite ibibazo bitandukanye bisa n’ibye, usanga nta rukundo berekwa kandi aba nibo usanga bavuyemo abantu wavuga ko bashaririwe n’ubuzima, bakiheba.

Rimwe na rimwe abatuye mu mijyi tubona abana batuye munsi y’ibiraro n’abarara ku ikarito ariko ntabwo tubabonera umwanya wo kubatega amatwi ngo twumve impamvu bafashe ibyemezo byo gusiga iwabo ngo bajye kuba mu buzima bukakaye butyo.

Ese babyeyi nubwo kubyara ari umugisha mwaba muzi ko iyo utitaye ku muryango uba uri gutega ibisasu bizageraho bigaturika?

Reka tuganire ku bwoko bumwe bw’ibibazo biri mu miryango biramutse bititaweho bishobora kuzahinduka ibisasu bishobora kuzageraho bigaturika kandi bikagira ingaruka ku muryango Nyarwanda.

1. Kutagenera umwana iby’ibanze mu buzima bwe: Kubyara umwana utiteguye guha ibyo azakenera mu buzima bw’ibanze, hari igihe kizagera akubaze icyo wamubyariye.

2. Abana bavuka mu nda zidateganyijwe: Iyo urebye abakobwa bari kubyara inda zidateganyijwe ukongeraho n’umubare w’abafatwa ku ngufu wagira ngo ni icyorezo.

Urugero urebye mu Karere ka Bugesera abakobwa 500 batwite muri ubu buryo. Utekereze uko mu gihugu cyose bimeze cyangwa se abana bavuka muri ubu buryo mu mwaka uko bangana. Uko ba se bababyara batiteguye kuzuza inshingano za kibyeyi bizatuma bakurana umubabaro wo kutabamenya kandi abo birumvikana ko kububakamo indangagaciro bizagorana.

Abana bavuka ku bw’impanuka ntibishimirwa n’imiryango, twabita abana b’ipfunwe kandi ubu buzima bazabukurana bitume umusaruro wabyo uba mubi mu gihe kiri imbere. Iyo tuvuze abana ntabwo twasiga abavuka ku bakobwa n’abagore bicuruza.

Urebye na n’ubu ingaruka zatangiye kwigaragaza iyo urebye ibigo ngororamuco biri mu gihugu urushaho kubona uburemere bw’iki kibazo.

3. Abana bavuka mu miryango yifashije, batitabwaho n’ababyeyi: Bitewe n’ubuzima bugenda bugorana hari ababyeyi usanga bihugiraho, bakabura umwanya wo kuganiriza abana babo no kubatoza indangagaciro zibakwiye.

Kwibeshya gukomeye ni ukwibwira ko iyo wishyuriye umwana ishuri ryiza, akabona ibiryo bihagije, agatura mu nzu nziza, ukamuha buri kimwe yifuza bizamugira umwana muzima. Umuntu agizwe n’ibice bitatu birimo umwuka, ubugingo n’umubiri; iyo ugaburiye igice kimwe ugakomeretsa amarangamutima ye akabura urukundo rwa kibyeyi amaherezo azaguhindukirana.

4. Abana bakuze batozwa urwangano: Iyo umwana akuze bamubwira ko abaturanyi ari babi, ba runaka ari bo bagize uruhare mu bibazo dufite, ni bo batuma utagira ababyeyi, burya iyo batabigenza batya uba nawe uri uyu n’uyu bigeraho bigahinduka ubuzima bwe. Igisigara ni ugushaka uburyo azasohoka muri iki kintu yatojwe, amaherezo azabikora nabi kuko imiyoboro y’urukundo iba yarifunze birumvikana ko azakora bibi. Iki na cyo ni igisasu gitezwe mu miryango imwe n’imwe.

Nigeze gutekereza ukuntu mu mitwe y’iterabwoba umwana w’imyaka icyenda gusa abasha kwiturikirizaho igisasu na we agapfana n’abandi, naje gusesengura nsanga akenshi bafata abana batahawe urukundo mu miryango yabo bakabatoza, ni bo bakora ibibi kuruta abandi kuko ubumuntu buba buri hafi ya ntabwo.

5. Ikoreshwa ry’imbuga nkoranyambaga: Ikoranabuganga ni ryiza ariko iyo ridakoreshejwe neza riteza ibibazo biruta ibyo rikemura.

Iyo urebye imyitwarire y’urubyiruko ruhugiye ku ikoranabuhanga wibaza umuryango Nyarwanda uko uzaba umeze mu myaka mike iri imbere. Buri munsi urubyiruko rubona ubukangurambaga bubaganisha mu busambanyi buteye ubwoba.

Amaradiyo agera saa Sita z’ijoro abayakoraho bakavuga ibijyanye n’ubusambanyi ntacyo baciye iruhande, abafite YouTube kugira ngo bacuruze bashyiraho ibikangurira abantu gusambana n’inkuru zerekeye imibonano mpuzabitsina, indirimbo zinyuzwa ku maradiyo na za televiziyo inyinshi muri zo ni izikangurira urubyiruko kujya muri uwo murongo.

Abahanzi kugira ngo ibihangano byabo bikundwe, na bo basa n’abahinduye umuvuno muri iyi minsi kuko inganzo yabo isigaye igusha cyane ku rukundo rwo mu buriri.

Birakwiye ko inzego zibishinzwe zitera intambwe yo kugira icyo zikora kuko bisa nk’aho turi gutaba ibisasu bizaturika kera.

Ese birashoboka gutegura ibi bisasu aho bitezwe?

Igisubizo navuga nti ‘Yego’, ababyeyi cyangwa se imiryango iramutse ihagurukiye iki kibazo cyakemuka. Niba twifuza umuryango, amatorero, igihugu by’ejo hazaza nidutangire uyu munsi twige ibibazo biri mu miryango n’uburyo byakemukamo kandi rube uruhare rwa buri wese.

Gusa ntabwo twakwirengagiza, ko gutegura igisasu giteze bisaba kwitwararika, byaba byiza kidatezwe kuko bimwe muri ibyo bisasu bitazabura abo biturikana.

Tukivuga ku buryo bwo kubaka umuryango hari ahantu hatatu [mu muryango, mu ishuri no mu rusengero] umwana amara igihe kinini ku buryo abamuba hafi babishyize muri gahunda byamufasha kuvamo umuntu muzima ubereye sosiyete.

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